Ep. 79: How to develop your intuition + manifest quantum leaps w/Ashley Gordon
[36 MIN LISTEN]
Curious how to develop your intuition so you can become more of a magnet for your desires? Ashley Gordon drops by for an insightful take on how to get in touch with your intuition, physical signs of intuition, manifestation and limiting beliefs. Honestly, we talk about all the things in such a succinct and specific way that will really open your eyes to this form of self discovery and overall energetic preservation.
In this episode you’ll learn:
What it means to go quantum + play in the quantum field
How to get in touch with your intuition
What's manifestation and how does manifestation work scientifically
Manifestation vs faith
How to change a limiting belief
Ashley Gordon is the CEO of The Quantum Coach Co. and creator of the Badass Manifester brand and podcast with over a million downloads and counting. Ashley and her team help coaches start, grow, and scale their businesses, master the craft of coaching, and step into their Big Coach Energy. Ashley is also the founder of the Quantum Coaching Academy, an immersive, internationally-accredited 6-month certification program that trains the next generation of world-class coaches and leaders in eight life-changing modalities, including Quantum Life Energy Coaching, Neuro-Linguistic Programming, EFT Tapping, Reiki Level 1 Energy Healing, and Hypnotherapy as well as her new coaching foundations program Quantum Coach Catalyst. Ashley lives for the ripple effect of helping others master the craft of coaching so they can provide life-changing transformations for their clients to fully embody their highest potential.
Episode transcript:
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Welcome to The Life with Liz Podcast, the place to be if you wanna go from invisible to vibrant in your life, and embrace the power you didn't know you had inside of you. I'm your host, Liz Fleming, business owner, mom, military spouse, entrepreneur, founder, CEO, and life coach, who is passionate about helping ambitious women like you step into their power and their purpose on purpose so they can experience as much joy, success, satisfaction, and abundance as humanly possible.
Now without further ado, let's dive right into this episode.
00:00:38.450 --> 00:00:43.180 Liz Fleming: Ashley Gordon, my dear friend, welcome to the life with Liz podcast. Yay.
11 00:00:43.180 --> 00:00:45.290 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Hi! I'm so excited.
12 00:00:45.290 --> 00:00:46.150 Liz Fleming: This is amazing.
13 00:00:46.150 --> 00:00:48.170 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): I love Liz. Love life with Liz.
14 00:00:49.850 --> 00:01:06.960 Liz Fleming: For everyone listening. Ashley is, was my main coach in the quantum Coaching Academy, where I got all of my certifications that I'm so proud of and turn her team are incredible. And that's that's why you're here. You have literally changed my life in so many ways, and I want to tell everyone about it.
15 00:01:06.960 --> 00:01:11.279 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): So sweet. Thank you. I'm so I'm so grateful. The universe, like.
16 00:01:11.410 --> 00:01:14.900 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): had us cross path, cross cross paths, and like
17 00:01:15.700 --> 00:01:21.860 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): support your ripple effect, because you're doing such big things, and I'm just so grateful to be part of your journey.
18 00:01:21.860 --> 00:01:32.689 Liz Fleming: Yes, we love the ripples. I'm so grateful that you're part of my journey, too. It's phenomenal. So for everyone listening, tell us a bit about who you are and what your magic is.
19 00:01:32.690 --> 00:01:33.919 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Oh, my God!
20 00:01:34.340 --> 00:01:45.000 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): So I am a mama. I have a baby boy, and I'm pregnant with my second, my second baby. On the way baby girl is coming. So I'm following in your footsteps.
21 00:01:45.538 --> 00:02:07.120 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): And I have a business that I started back in 2015. I'm sorry. 2017, which is called now it's called the Quantum Coach Co, and we are an education company for coaches. We train the next generation of coaches to become world class at what they do. And I think my magic is in
22 00:02:07.580 --> 00:02:34.510 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): my ability to help other coaches learn deep facilitation skills and tools and processes and help help them, help their clients on a much deeper level, and create like a safety within, within their coaching relationships, but also within, like the coaching industry as a whole and really disrupt the industry. Because there's a lot of Bs out there. And yeah, I mean, I do so many things I.
23 00:02:34.850 --> 00:02:36.804 Liz Fleming: I don't know where to start.
24 00:02:37.130 --> 00:02:49.480 Liz Fleming: and you started in Yoga, right? That's where you kind of got your practice going. And then it became more of like the intuitive manifestation. And then you got into coaching. Right? That's kind.
25 00:02:49.480 --> 00:02:50.190 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Yes.
26 00:02:50.190 --> 00:02:50.760 Liz Fleming: Edit to.
27 00:02:50.760 --> 00:03:12.999 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): I was working in real estate for a long time, and I was miserable. I was just not in my purpose, not in my calling, and like, I'm sure all of us can relate to being in a job that just doesn't feel like it's what you're supposed to be doing in this life, and the pain of that got so great that I was like, I need a change. I need to do something different. And so I found Yoga, I ended up becoming a Yoga teacher.
28 00:03:13.220 --> 00:03:14.430 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): And then
29 00:03:14.630 --> 00:03:38.540 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): that's what led me to find coaching where I was like. Oh, I really like helping people transform on the yoga mat and leave feeling different than the way that they came. You know, when you go to a workout class and you just you're you go in with a certain vibe, and you leave, and you're like, I feel so much better most of the time that happens right. Sometimes we feel more out of it. But most of the time we feel better, and that kind of led me to
30 00:03:39.030 --> 00:03:57.590 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): just personal development, right? The Yoga training was the 1st thing that opened my eyes to spirituality, and doing deep inner work, and looking at myself and being like what makes me really happy. What makes me feel like I'm in my purpose, and I was always interested in manifestation and mindset and all of that.
31 00:03:57.820 --> 00:04:21.259 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): but I never knew how to connect it to something other than like getting free drinks at the bar, manifesting like epic parking spaces. Or, you know, I started to put it towards like, what's my purpose? What's my bigger calling. Why am I here? I don't have to stay in a job that I'm miserable at. What do I really want to do? And I asked. I started asking bigger questions, and those questions led me to like
32 00:04:21.390 --> 00:04:26.599 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): coaching, and the next thing, and the next thing, and the next thing it like led me on this beautiful journey.
33 00:04:27.020 --> 00:04:50.470 Liz Fleming: Yes, I love it, following your intuition, which is so much of what I want to talk about here today. Because that's ultimately why I found you how I found you, and like outside of Qca, I had just hosted Glowcon for the 1st time, and my business brain was like you need certifications on paper, and that's all I was seeing was like that part of it.
34 00:04:50.470 --> 00:05:14.949 Liz Fleming: But then, when we spoke, and I signed up and I jumped into like the community and the learning, it became this whole personal development and self discovery experience on top of the coaching experience that I was getting, too. So the world's merged, and I had that feeling in my gut that just kind of kept taking me down that that road like it sounds like you were experiencing, too.
35 00:05:14.950 --> 00:05:37.770 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Yeah, I mean, it's really cool when you go to get certified in something like whether it's Qca for coaching or yoga certification. Or if you're listening to this. And you're like, Yeah, I'm really interested in sound healing, or I'm really interested in whatever it is. And you're curious about something following that intuitive nudge, and that intuitive curiosity is always a good idea, right? Like that. Passion will lead you
36 00:05:37.770 --> 00:05:57.329 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): to the next thing, even if that's not the thing, you know, like Yoga ultimately wasn't the thing. But it was the vehicle that I needed to get me to where I am today, you know. So. And you develop along the way like you're learning a skill set that you can use. But in that process you're getting so much
37 00:05:57.520 --> 00:06:04.810 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): of your own transformation that it's just like kind of mind blowing. It's very parallel process, I would say.
38 00:06:05.100 --> 00:06:09.780 Liz Fleming: Yeah, mind blowing for sure. Can we talk about like
39 00:06:10.540 --> 00:06:16.899 Liz Fleming: we keep talking about like getting the feeling and following the feeling? And that comes up in this industry a lot like it's all over. Instagram.
40 00:06:16.900 --> 00:06:17.430 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Yeah.
41 00:06:17.430 --> 00:06:30.060 Liz Fleming: Trending post. It's like, Follow your heart. Follow the feeling. So I want to try and break that down at a more granular level, and maybe you can help me. But, like, how can someone who is new to this stuff.
42 00:06:30.760 --> 00:06:40.339 Liz Fleming: deep in their intuition like, what? How would that physically present? And I'm sure it's subjective. It's different for everyone. But are there certain tells.
43 00:06:41.068 --> 00:06:44.210 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): I mean number one. You have to
44 00:06:44.590 --> 00:07:10.089 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): understand. Like, I think a lot of people have this gut reaction of like, I'm not intuitive, like a lot of people. I feel like it's 1 way or the other what some people are like. I'm not intuitive, and someone else is like, I'm so intuitive. But I don't listen to it, you know, like I already knew that was gonna happen, or I saw that coming, you know, like we have. Obviously we all do have this like any intuition, and it's a muscle. We gotta we gotta build it up. We got to practice it.
45 00:07:10.090 --> 00:07:16.320 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): I mean, I could speak for myself in that like for me. I have learned over the years how my intuition speaks to me.
46 00:07:16.680 --> 00:07:17.690 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): and
47 00:07:18.030 --> 00:07:25.370 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): it's very, very really so subtle like it's so subtle it almost feels like a feather like I could miss it.
48 00:07:25.600 --> 00:07:29.959 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): It's like a feather across my head that like is like, Wait, what was that.
49 00:07:30.140 --> 00:07:49.130 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): or like an image will flash, or I'll hear something, and I'll get this like nudge, or it shows up as this like deep, deep knowing that's like it shows up for me as a yes or a no in my, in my system, where it's like, wanna Do this. Yes.
50 00:07:49.540 --> 00:08:08.890 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Do you want to do that. No, and I know now that that's what I have to follow. But I only learned that by not listening for a very long time. So if you're hearing this, and you're like, Wait, that's confusing, like, of course, it's going to say yes. But the thing is is, you actually have to listen to the yes.
51 00:08:09.540 --> 00:08:24.790 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Have to know how to move on that on that. Yes, that you get. I don't know if that's like landing, but for me, I've I've heard the feeling, and I felt the feeling, and then I've doubted the feeling, and self-doubt has been like my biggest blocker to my intuition.
52 00:08:25.250 --> 00:08:31.114 Liz Fleming: Yeah. And then, you know, the universe being the universe, just sends you the lesson over and over and over and over again.
53 00:08:31.370 --> 00:08:33.260 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Yeah, until you freaking get it?
54 00:08:33.260 --> 00:08:37.719 Liz Fleming: Until I am like 35, and writing another entry in my journal like, Oh.
55 00:08:38.190 --> 00:08:58.809 Liz Fleming: this is happening again. What the hell? So yeah, I think what Ashley is saying, too, is it? It resonates with me as well. You know you kind of know yourself best. The more you practice this, and you know what the feeling is when it's like a yes, and you know what it's like when you're doubting the yes when it should, you know.
56 00:08:58.810 --> 00:09:22.260 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): I also think that like when you are, if you're like, really new to understanding your own intuition, and your life doesn't feel like it's in alignment like you feel like something is off or you feel stuck, or you feel like you keep repeating a pattern over and over again. That's a really good indicator to kind of. Ask yourself, just like, what makes you happy?
57 00:09:22.760 --> 00:09:29.229 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): I know it's like a simple question, but what is your passion? What is your bliss. I have a tattoo, one tattoo.
58 00:09:29.560 --> 00:09:35.799 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): and it says, Follow your bliss, but the whole quote is, Follow your bliss, and the universe will open doors where there were only walls
59 00:09:36.300 --> 00:09:38.550 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): by Joseph Campbell. And
60 00:09:38.700 --> 00:09:50.470 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): it's true, right like, if we step back from the shit and the pain and the drama, and, like all the nonsense that so many of us deal with in our lives. Just
61 00:09:50.640 --> 00:09:55.670 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): what? Through our relationships, or whatever the stories in our own head.
62 00:09:56.680 --> 00:10:09.979 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): it's it's a clear indicator for me when things don't feel good in your life that you're not listening to your intuition so like stepping back and just being like very simply like what actually, what actually makes me happy.
63 00:10:11.040 --> 00:10:12.659 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): And getting clear. Yeah.
64 00:10:12.850 --> 00:10:15.010 Liz Fleming: And I think, too, when people hear
65 00:10:15.320 --> 00:10:28.880 Liz Fleming: that term follow your intuition, they think that they have to do something big and drastic like. That's what following your intuition is like. Oh, my gosh! I need to like up and quit my job without a plan, or I think there's just kind of some.
66 00:10:29.280 --> 00:10:31.820 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Some shadow around.
67 00:10:32.190 --> 00:10:42.800 Liz Fleming: Terminology there was for me like when I 1st got into this, and then the more I got to know myself, the more I realized like, Oh, taking a 15 min nap today.
68 00:10:42.800 --> 00:10:43.270 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Yeah.
69 00:10:43.270 --> 00:10:51.609 Liz Fleming: Feels like inspired action for me versus forcing myself to work this extra 15 min on something that I can't even focus on, you know. So.
70 00:10:51.610 --> 00:10:52.810 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): So true.
71 00:10:52.810 --> 00:10:53.160 Liz Fleming: Right.
72 00:10:53.160 --> 00:11:11.739 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): I follow it in that way, too, where I used to even a nap, even a nap like if I used to take a break and lay down and be like. This is actually more productive than anything else I could be doing right now. And this is gonna open my channels to receive more, and like be, you know, a higher frequency or higher vibration to what I want. So yes.
73 00:11:11.850 --> 00:11:40.340 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): yes, it's it's those little moments, too, that's like, Oh, make a laugh! Not all right, or you should go to this coffee shop today. This is crazy. So last summer I was driving, and I was like, I really wanted coffee. The coffee shop that I love was closed. So then I was like, All right. I guess I'll go to Dunkin donuts, which is like, so not my thing. But I went to Dunkin donuts, and I live very close to the beach and boardwalk, so I got my coffee, and I just heard this voice in my head say, Drive down to the beach.
74 00:11:40.450 --> 00:11:47.100 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): I was just like, I don't know like, where did that come from? I was. That wasn't my plan. I was just going to go home and go back to work.
75 00:11:47.500 --> 00:11:58.990 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): So I drive down to the beach. I park my car. I go up on the boardwalk, and I'm sitting on the bench just like taking it in. It's a nice, beautiful day, looking at the ocean, watching the people. All of a sudden
76 00:11:59.200 --> 00:12:01.860 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): I see 2 people walk by
77 00:12:02.520 --> 00:12:09.390 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): that I have not seen in like maybe 10 years. They were like long lost cousins of mine, like.
78 00:12:09.920 --> 00:12:10.870 Liz Fleming: What like.
79 00:12:10.870 --> 00:12:15.239 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Long lost cousins like we all looked at each other. We were like what
80 00:12:16.300 --> 00:12:31.940 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): this is so crazy that's wild mind blowing. But had I not listened in that moment to be like, actually, yeah, I'll just go down to the beach. That's just what some a voice in my head just told me I sound like a freak right now, but like I'm just gonna listen.
81 00:12:31.940 --> 00:12:34.440 Liz Fleming: That's how it works for you. And most.
82 00:12:34.440 --> 00:12:38.950 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Works for me, and I couldn't. I literally, Liz. I couldn't believe it.
83 00:12:39.160 --> 00:12:48.290 Liz Fleming: That's amazing. And wasn't there? Another time? I think that you posted this on your stories. You went to the beach intuitively, and you were sitting alone, and you could smell cigarette smoke or something, and.
84 00:12:48.290 --> 00:12:49.040 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Thanks.
85 00:12:49.040 --> 00:12:53.060 Liz Fleming: Do like passed away like your grandmother, or something like she was sitting with you, or something.
86 00:12:53.060 --> 00:12:53.760 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Yeah.
87 00:12:53.930 --> 00:12:54.670 Liz Fleming: So cool.
88 00:12:54.670 --> 00:12:54.990 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): You have a good.
89 00:12:54.990 --> 00:12:57.222 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): I hope it's okay that I just shared that
90 00:12:57.470 --> 00:12:58.970 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): 100% 100%. It happens.
91 00:12:58.970 --> 00:12:59.469 Liz Fleming: Stuff like that.
92 00:12:59.470 --> 00:13:00.890 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Happens all the time
93 00:13:00.990 --> 00:13:16.159 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): all the time, even before I was really into any of this stuff like understood manifestation. I remember studying abroad in Italy, and I kept having this like weird vision walking down the street of somebody mugging me like somebody like taking my bag.
94 00:13:16.650 --> 00:13:33.770 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): And it was irrational. It was just like there was nobody there like there, I just was like I would jump, and I would be freaked out. And I'm like, Okay, just calm down like there's nobody there. There's nobody there. This was happening for probably a week and a half, and then one night, sure enough, coming home 3 in the morning
95 00:13:34.340 --> 00:13:40.049 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): some guy big jacket just like swiped my wristlet. Remember the wristlets.
96 00:13:40.050 --> 00:13:40.620 Liz Fleming: Yup!
97 00:13:40.620 --> 00:13:42.479 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): I had my digital camera in there.
98 00:13:44.090 --> 00:13:46.259 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): My God! My blackberry wasn't in there.
99 00:13:46.694 --> 00:13:47.129 Liz Fleming: Jeez.
100 00:13:48.135 --> 00:13:48.740 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Throwback.
101 00:13:48.970 --> 00:13:56.380 Liz Fleming: It's so wild as you uncover all this, these truths about yourself.
102 00:13:56.730 --> 00:14:01.089 Liz Fleming: that, like what happens spiritually, and you can have.
103 00:14:01.090 --> 00:14:01.740 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Right.
104 00:14:01.740 --> 00:14:20.479 Liz Fleming: Whatever belief you want to have, you can believe in God. You can believe in Universe Source. However you choose to define it. It doesn't matter. What's really cool is that the universe accepts it, no matter what, and you will have certain synchronicities and signs like this in your life show up that are
105 00:14:20.650 --> 00:14:30.899 Liz Fleming: proof that following your intuition is like, yes, good. You're it's like being confirmed right? I know that's a prime sign, too, with manifestation, which is.
106 00:14:30.900 --> 00:14:31.550 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Yes.
107 00:14:31.550 --> 00:14:32.810 Liz Fleming: So well versed in.
108 00:14:33.120 --> 00:14:36.580 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Yeah, yeah, yeah. And it's interesting, too. Because
109 00:14:37.140 --> 00:14:56.950 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): for a lot of those instances that I didn't listen like, I have a lot of stories about like the, you know, someone like swiping my wrist like other stories like that, where I didn't know what to do with it. I didn't know how to listen to that. I didn't know how to be aware of that. And it's a learning for next time. It's it's a way to kind of prepare yourself of like, okay, this is real. This is how your intuition talks to you. So like, pay attention.
110 00:14:57.340 --> 00:15:14.459 Liz Fleming: Definitely, and I know we have a lot of listeners, too, that are so curious about manifestation and getting, you know, dipping their toes into this pool. So can you just give everyone a brief overview of what manifestation even is or like what.
111 00:15:14.460 --> 00:15:14.790 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Yeah.
112 00:15:14.790 --> 00:15:17.979 Liz Fleming: Any manifestation is maybe, or 2.
113 00:15:17.980 --> 00:15:18.740 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Love that.
114 00:15:18.880 --> 00:15:25.889 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): So I like to talk about manifestation as the end result of creation. So
115 00:15:26.070 --> 00:15:33.079 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): where we're at right now in this current reality. This is this is a manifestation of your past thoughts.
116 00:15:33.310 --> 00:15:40.049 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): feelings, energies, frequencies, emotions. Like all of that.
117 00:15:40.530 --> 00:15:45.969 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): who you believe yourself to be. Your limiting beliefs like it's all a culmination of
118 00:15:46.060 --> 00:15:53.720 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): of the past. Essentially so, the present is almost yes, we're in the present, but it's also a reflection of
119 00:15:53.780 --> 00:16:16.070 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): of the past. In a way. So manifestation is using your energy, using your thoughts, using your belief systems and identities to create something deliberately right to create what you actually want manifestation happens either way, like it doesn't matter if you know about it or not. You're manifesting all the time whether you
120 00:16:16.160 --> 00:16:23.880 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): think about it. Believe it. Don't believe it. Whatever it's still happening. It's just the natural laws of the universe, and
121 00:16:24.270 --> 00:16:26.469 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): it's really powerful that you're a creator.
122 00:16:26.840 --> 00:16:29.010 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): You get to create your reality.
123 00:16:29.300 --> 00:16:37.560 Liz Fleming: Yes, yeah, that's the part that people so often forget about is that it's happening all the time. Manifestation.
124 00:16:38.390 --> 00:16:49.670 Liz Fleming: But if you want it to work for you, you need to be proactive about it like, and that's getting comfortable with declaring your desires, which is not easy, for everyone certainly was not easy for me in the beginning.
125 00:16:49.670 --> 00:16:56.419 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Yeah, it's really funny, because the one of the 1st workshops I ever led, I asked them in the workshop like.
126 00:16:56.640 --> 00:16:58.889 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): do you ever write down your desires.
127 00:16:59.370 --> 00:17:00.390 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): And
128 00:17:00.760 --> 00:17:24.169 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): people literally thought I meant to do lists. They were like, Wait, yeah, I write that down every day. I write down like I have to do my laundry like. No, no like do you write down what you want in your life, not what you have to get done, not like what you want to get done, but more so like how you want your life to feel, and how you want your relationships to feel, and how much money you want to make, and what kind of
129 00:17:24.190 --> 00:17:46.250 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): relationship you want to have with your kids, and what kind of relationship do you want to have with your husband or partner. You know just all these different aspects of life. If you think about the wheel of life, your health and your fitness, your finances, your relationships, your career, all of those facets of who we are like. Do you write down what you ultimately would love to have in those areas?
130 00:17:46.430 --> 00:17:50.709 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): And people were just like, no, I don't, and I'm like.
131 00:17:52.043 --> 00:17:54.709 Liz Fleming: To lead.
132 00:17:54.710 --> 00:18:00.340 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): It was great. I love it. I love it. I'm like, okay, we're gonna do that. I mean, it's life changing for people.
133 00:18:00.670 --> 00:18:13.140 Liz Fleming: It's so freeing when you declare your desires like I've hosted vision board workshops, and I'll go around the room, and with permission, just kind of peer around, because it is a very personal process to declare your desires.
134 00:18:13.140 --> 00:18:13.930 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Yeah, very.
135 00:18:14.550 --> 00:18:33.359 Liz Fleming: And I'll be like, is that like what you really want? And she's like there was this 1 1 guest who who was trying to manifest like horse riding lessons like once a month, and I was like, that's great. But what do you really want? And I kind of helped her unpack like the dream horse girl life right.
136 00:18:33.360 --> 00:18:34.230 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Yes.
137 00:18:34.230 --> 00:18:55.480 Liz Fleming: This is your place to play. This isn't your place to like. Judge yourself as you're writing down the thing and feeling shame about it because it's going to be counterproductive, the manifestation right? So it's really getting yourself comfortable with that anything is possible energy, which is what you and I and all the other coaches that you've taught quantum coaches.
138 00:18:55.480 --> 00:18:58.950 Liz Fleming: That's where we, the anything is possible. Field right?
139 00:18:58.950 --> 00:19:04.730 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): S, yeah, the quantum field. We're literally all, all realities exist.
140 00:19:05.080 --> 00:19:05.850 Liz Fleming: Yes.
141 00:19:05.850 --> 00:19:08.359 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): I mean, I can get into that woo woo stuff, but I know.
142 00:19:08.360 --> 00:19:29.149 Liz Fleming: I mean, I'm game. I love that so much, and I've dabbled in it in other episodes. But it's at a point where I'm like. It's how far do you go, you know, and it's such a for me. It was like this, really foreign thing, like a year or 2 ago. And then I realized, just by listening to myself
143 00:19:29.250 --> 00:19:39.940 Liz Fleming: and my body and my tells and my intuition, all the stuff that we're talking about, like the answers are within. And when I listen to that, like, I jump timelines. Yeah.
144 00:19:39.940 --> 00:19:40.450 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Thanks.
145 00:19:40.450 --> 00:19:43.349 Liz Fleming: These really incredible ways, and
146 00:19:43.570 --> 00:19:49.269 Liz Fleming: I totally believe everything you know, like I don't understand how it can't not be possible like.
147 00:19:49.270 --> 00:19:50.389 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Can't unsee it once.
148 00:19:50.390 --> 00:19:51.699 Liz Fleming: No, you can't even see it.
149 00:19:52.500 --> 00:19:53.580 Liz Fleming: 100%.
150 00:19:53.580 --> 00:19:57.910 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Love. That jumping timelines is like. It's easier than most people think.
151 00:19:58.490 --> 00:20:04.979 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): but they just have to understand and believe that all timelines exist and all timelines are possible for them.
152 00:20:05.130 --> 00:20:05.600 Liz Fleming: Yeah.
153 00:20:05.600 --> 00:20:08.119 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): That's where, like the inner work pieces come in.
154 00:20:08.290 --> 00:20:19.200 Liz Fleming: Yes, and that, my friends, is the power of having a coach guide you through this stuff if you're hearing us, and you're like what the fuck are they talking about? This is this, this is why we're doing what we do.
155 00:20:19.200 --> 00:20:19.920 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Yeah.
156 00:20:19.920 --> 00:20:36.909 Liz Fleming: We have the expertise and the modalities to kind of walk you through this stuff, but I think at its core level there's so much groundwork that you can lay before you even dive into that which is is really exciting. There's so many resources. There's so many people you can.
157 00:20:36.910 --> 00:20:39.200 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): I mean this, podcast. Is an amazing resource.
158 00:20:39.450 --> 00:20:40.200 Liz Fleming: If I do.
159 00:20:40.380 --> 00:20:44.970 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): You're listening to this right now. You're doing a great job. Good job, resource.
160 00:20:45.970 --> 00:21:06.039 Liz Fleming: Good job. I love it. Yeah, there's so many ways that we can go. But I don't want to go too far down the rabbit hole with that one. But just if you're curious, just Google, quantum field quantum timelines and have yourself a ball, there's so many fantastic books and resources you can jump into. And I think, too.
161 00:21:06.100 --> 00:21:30.080 Liz Fleming: I just want to make a note on this because I've seen this come up a lot like in Google searches. I do like bananas SEO for this podcast right? So I prep every episode knowing the person. And I let my intuition lead as I'm doing it. But then I also like, dive into the depths of search engine optimization. I'm like, what are people actually typing into Google about manifestation.
162 00:21:30.080 --> 00:21:30.690 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Yeah.
163 00:21:30.690 --> 00:21:48.840 Liz Fleming: Alignment. And so with manifestation. And I wanted to ask you this, what comes up a lot is this term manifestation versus faith, like people think that they, if they choose to be a manifester proactively like we're talking about that. It goes against like
164 00:21:48.960 --> 00:22:10.059 Liz Fleming: their religion. It goes against the Bible. It goes against, you know. Pick your sect right? So I just wanted to. I know that's kind of a heavy topic and whatnot. But I just found that so interesting? Because in my eyes I think manifestation simply elevates your current beliefs. It doesn't mean you have to change them.
165 00:22:10.690 --> 00:22:12.130 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): 100%, a hundred percent.
166 00:22:12.130 --> 00:22:17.579 Liz Fleming: Yeah, like, it's not some crazy thing where we're. It's not like a cult like it's just a practice.
167 00:22:17.580 --> 00:22:18.180 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Yeah.
168 00:22:18.180 --> 00:22:18.600 Liz Fleming: Yeah.
169 00:22:18.600 --> 00:22:19.439 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Oh, it's it's.
170 00:22:19.440 --> 00:22:20.170 Liz Fleming: Energy.
171 00:22:20.330 --> 00:22:26.390 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): It really has nothing to do with religion at all. You can. You can have your faith in your religion.
172 00:22:26.830 --> 00:22:49.060 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): and be a really powerful manifester at the same time, where, like one doesn't cancel the other one out. It's an amplifier, as you're saying, where, like manifestation helps you really get clear on like. What are the limits that you're putting on yourself? And what are the thought patterns that are not serving you, that keep looping, that are keeping you stuck.
173 00:22:49.210 --> 00:22:56.580 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): How can you clear those? So you can be an energy match for
174 00:22:56.870 --> 00:23:08.269 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): your highest paycheck, or for your amazing relationship, or for literally anything that you want any experience you want to have? And you know.
175 00:23:08.800 --> 00:23:28.020 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): people are like, okay, well, what is this energy? Is it God? Is it universe? Is it source? It? It is God. If you want it to be like it can be, it can be whatever you resonate with like. Truly, I personally resonate with all the above. I'm like, yes, God, yes, source, yes, universe like all of it.
176 00:23:28.020 --> 00:23:29.289 Liz Fleming: Be down on me. Yes.
177 00:23:29.290 --> 00:23:36.460 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Yeah, that's it all. I like Jesus, too, like all of it, you know. Like.
178 00:23:36.460 --> 00:23:36.930 Liz Fleming: Yes.
179 00:23:36.930 --> 00:23:46.930 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Fine. So I truly believe it is an amplifier to to your faith, and to really help you
180 00:23:47.340 --> 00:23:51.279 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): like your faith will help your manifestations and your manifestations will help your faith.
181 00:23:51.480 --> 00:24:00.640 Liz Fleming: Yeah, I agree, 1 million percent. And I just find it so interesting that you know what people are searching for. And
182 00:24:00.900 --> 00:24:08.299 Liz Fleming: the fact that there are people searching for stuff like this is like proof enough of their limiting thought patterns, you know, like.
183 00:24:08.300 --> 00:24:08.630 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): The.
184 00:24:08.630 --> 00:24:13.890 Liz Fleming: There's something inside them that tells them that they have to choose, that they can't have it all, you know, like it's.
185 00:24:13.890 --> 00:24:14.300 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Yes.
186 00:24:14.300 --> 00:24:19.880 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): really interesting. Yeah, do you want to tell everyone really quickly, like, what a limiting belief is? Cause that.
187 00:24:19.880 --> 00:24:20.530 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): yeah.
188 00:24:20.530 --> 00:24:21.700 Liz Fleming: Where this is going.
189 00:24:21.700 --> 00:24:33.400 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Yeah. Yeah. So eliminating belief is essentially something that sounds like, I'm not good enough. I'm not worthy. I'm not important. I'm not lovable. I'm not
190 00:24:33.920 --> 00:24:34.960 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): fill in the blank.
191 00:24:35.950 --> 00:24:43.479 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): And what that was created from was a decision that you made at some point on your timeline
192 00:24:43.790 --> 00:24:54.379 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): where you decided that you weren't that thing. So let's just say you were little, and something happened where your parents or someone in your life made you feel less than.
193 00:24:54.690 --> 00:24:58.799 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): And you decided at that point that you weren't good enough.
194 00:24:59.270 --> 00:25:06.050 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): and that turned into a belief system that you then carried with you for the rest of your life. And then what happens is
195 00:25:07.680 --> 00:25:10.529 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): we create evidence for ourselves
196 00:25:10.650 --> 00:25:22.360 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): in our life, that kind of reflect that back to us, where instances with situations, circumstances, relationships, will come up that will continue to embed that belief
197 00:25:22.620 --> 00:25:27.108 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): into your, into your psychology and into your
198 00:25:27.900 --> 00:25:33.659 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): identity, where you truly operate from that place of believing you're not enough.
199 00:25:34.210 --> 00:25:34.550 Liz Fleming: Right.
200 00:25:34.840 --> 00:25:48.536 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): The deep inner critic that's like the deeper belief system. But we have like different limiting beliefs all the time, like, I don't have enough time to do everything I want to do, or I don't have enough money to do this, or I don't have enough right. All of these are like
201 00:25:49.330 --> 00:25:52.799 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): apples from the apple tree, but, like the root, is.
202 00:25:52.800 --> 00:25:53.310 Liz Fleming: Hmm.
203 00:25:53.310 --> 00:25:54.250 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Enoughness.
204 00:25:54.650 --> 00:25:56.090 Liz Fleming: Yes, the root cause baby.
205 00:25:56.090 --> 00:25:57.069 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Yeah, the root cause.
206 00:25:58.253 --> 00:26:00.620 Liz Fleming: Yeah. And
207 00:26:01.890 --> 00:26:09.970 Liz Fleming: in manifestation, if you want to manifest anything that you desire, it requires you to release those limiting beliefs and.
208 00:26:09.970 --> 00:26:10.750 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Definitely.
209 00:26:10.750 --> 00:26:16.950 Liz Fleming: Having the tools to change your thought patterns, and when you do that.
210 00:26:17.330 --> 00:26:29.619 Liz Fleming: you know consistently over time, every single day, even if it's so much as you know, deciding not to gossip like you usually do with that friend at the end of the day, right? Even little tiny.
211 00:26:29.620 --> 00:26:30.470 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Chefs.
212 00:26:30.470 --> 00:26:50.369 Liz Fleming: Tweaks like that. Yeah, totally change the trajectory of your life and allow you to jump timelines. And you know, I think, what's going on with me this year is like a prime example of the work that I've done on myself, like I fully believe in shit like ascension, sickness, and like.
213 00:26:50.370 --> 00:26:51.150 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Yeah.
214 00:26:51.150 --> 00:26:52.970 Liz Fleming: Thing and all of that, and like
215 00:26:53.140 --> 00:27:09.150 Liz Fleming: everything for me, based on what I've documented just tracks. So I just know, even though I'm going through a season of life that is super difficult. It's my I'm seeing it as my expansion, because I'm doing the work on releasing those limiting beliefs and
216 00:27:09.280 --> 00:27:14.790 Liz Fleming: dredging up all the the gunk. Right the and you, said the gremlin energy. So.
217 00:27:14.790 --> 00:27:15.260 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Yeah.
218 00:27:15.440 --> 00:27:15.990 Liz Fleming: It's.
219 00:27:16.630 --> 00:27:30.120 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Something that I did in the beginning was, I realized, like, you have to become really aware of where you're putting your energy. What's your point of attraction. Right? So when you're when you're thinking about creating something.
220 00:27:31.530 --> 00:27:45.370 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): think about what am I putting my energy towards? That's not really in service to what I'm creating. So, for example, when something would go, I had like a really tough relationship with my in-laws when I 1st started dating my husband.
221 00:27:45.370 --> 00:28:02.209 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): and it was toxic for me, and I just would complain about it all day, all night. Anyone who would listen I would call my mom, and then I would call my best friend. Then I'd call my other friend, and then I'd see someone outside, and I'd tell them about that, because I wanted to feel validated and feeling like I wasn't crazy, but
222 00:28:02.460 --> 00:28:25.010 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): I would complain about the same things over and over and over again, and I would perpetuate that negative reality. So you can manifest something that you're complaining about by like perpetuating it over and over and over again by talking about it. So just like you were saying, you know not, choosing not to gossip, choosing not to complain, choosing, not like. It's good to vent and get it out and release the energy.
223 00:28:25.240 --> 00:28:30.980 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): But if you're talking about it over and over again, you're gonna create it over and over again.
224 00:28:31.550 --> 00:28:45.810 Liz Fleming: Yeah, that's right. And it's just gonna yeah. It's gonna keep happening. The law of patterns. Right? It's just going to keep happening over and over again a different. You're gonna get more to complain about, more to gossip, about, more to make you feel like shit. So yeah. So
225 00:28:46.420 --> 00:28:51.909 Liz Fleming: when you said, too, you're manifesting at all times. This is what we want. You guys to keep in mind is.
226 00:28:51.910 --> 00:28:52.450 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Yeah.
227 00:28:52.660 --> 00:29:08.409 Liz Fleming: It's so much like matters what you're keeping in your conscious awareness all the time, your energy and what you're thinking to yourself, and what you're thinking of others, all of that matters. And I think when you release it
228 00:29:08.610 --> 00:29:14.249 Liz Fleming: to the universe, and you decide to be more proactive about it, which is what we're advocating for here.
229 00:29:14.570 --> 00:29:19.389 Liz Fleming: Your intuition, like we were talking about at the beginning is gonna heighten. Right? That's like.
230 00:29:19.390 --> 00:29:20.010 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Totally.
231 00:29:20.010 --> 00:29:24.789 Liz Fleming: Core theme of this conversation is like our goal is helping. You
232 00:29:25.070 --> 00:29:37.589 Liz Fleming: hear that inner voice a lot louder all the time, and make that those decisions for you a lot easier, so that you're not living in constant fear and hesitation of like, did I do the right thing? It's like you.
233 00:29:37.920 --> 00:29:39.489 Liz Fleming: So you just know.
234 00:29:39.490 --> 00:29:50.070 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Just know, and when you start to release some of these limitations that you place on yourself, release some of the complaining release some of the gossip, release some of the things that weigh you down
235 00:29:50.490 --> 00:30:15.879 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): by not repeating them over and over again. What happens is your energy starts to. Sorry we're going a little starts to vibrate like your energy starts to lighten. And so all that heaviness that was once there is no longer there. And so when your energy becomes lighter and think about food right? If we eat a heavy meal, we feel heavy. If we
236 00:30:15.880 --> 00:30:30.669 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): talk about heavy things and gossip, and we're negative. We're gonna feel heavy. If we let that shit go and we start to, you know, eat lighter and feel lighter and be lighter. What's gonna happen is you become more magnetic.
237 00:30:30.910 --> 00:30:40.499 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): So when you start to like, trust your intuition more, and you take a step here because you you feel that that's the right thing for you, or you decide to do this other thing, whatever it is.
238 00:30:40.700 --> 00:31:00.070 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): You're trusting you're taking steps in that direction that makes you what we call in manifestation an energetic match for your desires where it feels like you actually don't have to focus on what you want so hard because you're naturally attracting things because you are in a lighter frequency.
239 00:31:00.320 --> 00:31:02.960 Liz Fleming: Yeah, and just like surrendering like not
240 00:31:03.380 --> 00:31:32.440 Liz Fleming: going on all the time. Right? It's 1 thing their desire. And just say, you know, I want a black Range Rover in a mountain house, but if you're every day you wake up and you're like, Oh, my God! I want that. I want that so bad like you're coming from a place of desperation. And you're gonna attract more experiences that make you feel that way. Whereas, you know, when you just release and you surrender. You say I want it, and you're monitoring your energy like you said you're going to become an energetic match for.
241 00:31:32.440 --> 00:31:48.950 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Because you're becoming the type of person that can receive that. It's not like you're not coming from this desperate energy. You're actually coming from the becoming right, like you're actually becoming the person who has those things and lives that life out needing it
242 00:31:49.090 --> 00:31:49.880 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): right now.
243 00:31:50.350 --> 00:31:56.930 Liz Fleming: Yes, and unbecoming who you're not, which is like my my favorite thing ever. I have a whole episode about that. I'm like.
244 00:31:57.520 --> 00:32:20.200 Liz Fleming: Becoming who you really are, like you already are her. You're just like releasing all the shit that no longer serves you, and it's allowing you to step into this like ultimate version of who you are, who you know, the person who can manifest whatever she wants, and leads with her intuition for every single thing, and feels absolutely no shame and no guilt about it like that for me is
245 00:32:20.520 --> 00:32:22.150 Liz Fleming: alignment. That's what it is.
246 00:32:22.150 --> 00:32:27.029 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): That was a big thing for me in the beginning. The shame and the guilt around like wanting what you wanted.
247 00:32:27.510 --> 00:32:29.300 Liz Fleming: Funny what I wanted.
248 00:32:29.490 --> 00:32:37.242 Liz Fleming: Yes, it still lingers. Sometimes I'm like, Oh, that's a little too big. I need to like. Go back to my little ladder of believability, as Catherine
249 00:32:37.980 --> 00:32:42.230 Liz Fleming: Catherine Sankina has taught us. I'm just like, all right. Let's knock that down just a peg.
250 00:32:43.510 --> 00:32:46.280 Liz Fleming: Think the awareness of it, too, is like really powerful.
251 00:32:46.280 --> 00:32:47.110 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Yes.
252 00:32:47.110 --> 00:33:01.989 Liz Fleming: It's like fun to play around with. So there's just so many opportunities with all of the topics that we're talking about. But, my friends, we are at the end of this episode. Believe it or not, we have to let sweet Ashley go and rest.
253 00:33:03.076 --> 00:33:08.513 Liz Fleming: I don't know how you can be pregnant and do things. I was like the worst pregnant person ever
254 00:33:08.800 --> 00:33:10.149 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): I don't believe it. I don't.
255 00:33:10.150 --> 00:33:16.080 Liz Fleming: I said no to everything I was like. I I'll say yes to the pool, because I'm weightless inside of a pool.
256 00:33:16.080 --> 00:33:18.310 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): That's true. I look forward to that this summer.
257 00:33:18.310 --> 00:33:20.318 Liz Fleming: Yes, it's gonna be glorious.
258 00:33:21.150 --> 00:33:26.750 Liz Fleming: So before we dip out, let everybody know what you've got coming up, and how they can stay in touch with you.
259 00:33:26.750 --> 00:33:56.640 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Yes, so we have a lot of great new things happening right now. One of them is, I have a new masterclass. If you're curious about coaching. And you've heard Liz talk about it. And you're like this life coaching thing, this spiritual coaching thing. It's like really tooting my horn. And you want to follow that intuitive nudge to learn more about it. I have a free training that I will give Liz. It will be in the show notes join us. It's called the quantum coach blueprint.
260 00:33:56.710 --> 00:34:12.029 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): and that's really lighting me up right now, and I'll be hanging out in that training for quite some time. And yeah, I'm on instagram @thequantum.coach, I on my website, the quantum dot coach. So come find me hang out.
261 00:34:12.620 --> 00:34:18.439 Liz Fleming: Ashley, thank you so much. This was so special. I admire you so much. I mean.
262 00:34:18.440 --> 00:34:19.919 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Admire you so much.
263 00:34:19.920 --> 00:34:22.808 Liz Fleming: I mean, it's just been such a fun journey.
264 00:34:23.370 --> 00:34:24.330 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): It has been.
265 00:34:24.330 --> 00:34:27.066 Liz Fleming: One year ago we were having this call, and
266 00:34:27.560 --> 00:34:38.069 Liz Fleming: you were like trying to onboard me into Qca. And I was so scared I was like, I don't know. Can I do it? Can I spend this? I don't know. And I just I would have spent 3 times that, you know.
267 00:34:38.070 --> 00:34:38.560 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Hmm.
268 00:34:38.560 --> 00:34:47.099 Liz Fleming: And where it got me today. So thank you from the bottom of my heart for that for your time today, and for helping everyone out.
269 00:34:47.100 --> 00:34:59.889 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): It's so funny because I was just like like gathering some screenshots that I have on my on my computer. And there's 1 from you that I have. And you it said Qca. Is the best gift I ever gave myself, and I was like.
270 00:34:59.890 --> 00:35:00.330 Liz Fleming: Oh!
271 00:35:00.330 --> 00:35:11.730 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Well, I love that reframe because I know it was such a journey for you. And like, yeah, it was a gift. It is a gift to give yourself. And now look how many people you're giving it back to, so.
272 00:35:11.730 --> 00:35:12.060 Liz Fleming: Yeah.
273 00:35:12.060 --> 00:35:12.660 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Awesome.
274 00:35:12.660 --> 00:35:15.459 Liz Fleming: It's the gift that just keeps on giving baby.
275 00:35:15.770 --> 00:35:16.879 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Love it love it love it.
276 00:35:16.880 --> 00:35:19.699 Liz Fleming: Alright. Thank you so much.
277 00:35:19.700 --> 00:35:20.779 Ashley Gordon (She/Her): Thank you.
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